Our Best PROVEN Natural Remedies for ADHD
As a parent of a kid with ADHD, there are many things that overwhelm me when it comes to making choices for my child. Nutrition and supplements have been something we have worked on for years. I have tried many different supplements and can honestly say, that I have found the best proven natural supplements that help my kids’ ADHD.
Be sure to keep reading for our updates one and two years later and how we were able to reduce my sons medication by half and then take him off completely, using only natural remedies for ADHD.
ADHD is a family issue–one that really can affect everyone in the house, not just the person diagnosed. I have learned so much over the course of trying to figure how to best manage my son and have found out that what goes into his body can have a huge effect.
I am uber vigilant about what my both my boys eat and stick to an adhd diet for both my tween and teen. We stay away from gluten and corn completely. We limit processed sugar to a once or twice a week treat. We buy organic fruits and vegetables as much as we can. We are low on grains and eat mostly grass fed meat. Dairy is limited to yogurt( – and not very often). Both boys drink water or unsweetened almond or coconut milk, exclusively.
Also, I have read tons of parenting books to help our struggles, as well. I fully acknowledge that I can be part of the problem when it comes to my kids’ behavior.
These two steps alone have made a big impact on both of my boys.
That being said, even with excellent nutrition, my son took prescription medication to help him focus at school for about a year and a half. As of October 2018, my son stopped taking his prescription medication all together.
We moved to 100% natural remedies to help my son’s ADHD for many reasons, which are covered in our ADHD STORY.
But, whether your kiddo takes prescription medicine for ADHD or not, these natural remedies for focus and attention are still an important and a vital part of treating the whole child.
I love to share what works with us, in the hopes that it will help others find a little relief for their family. ADHD can leave the whole family feeling emotionally and physically depleted. For us these really are the best natural supplements for focus and attention.(I take some of them, too!)
Related: Our ADHD Story Part One
Natural Remedies for Focus and Attention
Bluebonnet Animalz Multiple
When our standby, KidsCalm Multi, was discontinued, I went on a search for a replacement multivitamin. My standards are strict and sadly, its hard to find a vitamin without added sugar or other icky things.
You can follow my search on Instagram and read other’s suggestions from lovely readers in the comments below, too.
I landed on Bluebonnet Animalz Multiple and my kids take it without even a reminder – a plus of our low sugar diet – these taste yummy to them! These have a lot of B Vitamins and also Inositol(B8) – which has been shown to help with brain function and the balance of serotonin and dopamine(two important mood chemicals ADHD kids seem to be deficient in).
Barlean’s Fish Oil
We have been hearing about the beneficial effects of fish oil for kids with ADHD for awhile now–especially boys, who’s brains seem to be starving. Some fish oil supplements taste icky or make you burp up a fishy taste-Barleans does not. The flavors are yummy and both my boys take a healthy dose of this every morning.
Some of the flavors have added sweeteners, like xylitol, which are made from corn. While we try to avoid corn in our diet, this small amount does not seem to effect my boys. Just a word of caution if you are avoiding corn completely for an allergy.
This fish oil, has also had an overall great effect on my boys’ health. They are rarely sick and miss school one or two days a year for illness.
Jarrow Probiotics
Gut health is another topic that has gotten so much press lately. Our gut, it seems, is like our second brain, with it’s massive amount of neural tissue capable of affecting our mood and overall well-being. A healthy gut is vital for overall health, the absorption of nutrients, protecting the body from foreign invaders, and the regulation of many hormones.
Yogurt can help to introduce good bacteria into the gut, but watch out for high sugar content and other added icky ingredients. My boys take these chewable tablets by Jarrow every day to insure they are getting a good dose of healthy gut bacteria. They love the taste, there is no complaining. In fact, they remember to take these without any reminders.
Be careful what you purchase! Many probiotics, tested by third parties, have zero beneficial strands left in them from sitting on the shelf. I love the Jarrow brand because they are blister packed to ensure there is no reduction in potency from humidity or moisture.
What I notice: My boys rarely get sick or have a need for antibiotics. Their day to day physical health is pretty amazing. Their overall wellness contributes greatly to all aspects of their life, including reducing the symptoms of ADHD.
Like the fish oil, these have Xylitol – a sweetener derived from corn. I have not noticed any ill effects in my kids who normally stay away from corn in general, but some people steer clear of all corn sweeteners. It’s hard to find a good chewable without it, sadly! As soon as both of my kids can swallow big pills, we’ll transition off chewables.
Just Thrive Probiotics
We are fairly new to Just Thrive Probiotics – my kids are older and can mostly take capsules now. (Although, these can be opened up and mixed into just about anything – even baked into our oatmeal casserole and cowboy cookies.)
I learned all about the Just Thrive brand on The Wellness Mama podcast and was sold on them very quickly. Turns out, a lot of the good bacteria in killed in the stomach by the digestive acids. Makes sense, right?
So Just Thrive’s Probiotics are spore based, which means they can survive in the stomach. In fact, the survivability rate of this product is INCREDIBLE. The probiotic strands have 1000x higher rate of survival than greek yogurt! Wow.
My kids take one a day and pair it with a prebiotic from Just Thrive, too.
Just Thrive PREbiotic
We take this yummy PREbiotic also by JustThrive to give those little bacteria something they love to eat.
Here’s the thing about probiotics – they need to be met in the gut with good food to help them survive – or they won’t. You can naturally eat lots of prebiotics in fruits and veggies, but with two teens in the house, I don’t always want to fight with them about food.
This product is a bit of an insurance policy for me. No use spending lots of money on probiotics if they starve to death once they hit the gut.
Jarrow MagMind Magnesium
I can not sing the praises enough for MagMind by Jarrow for my oldest son with ADHD. (He used to take one of these in the morning to help keep him calm enough until his ADHD meds kick in for school. It takes about 20 minutes to see the effects, so I made sure he got one on rising.)
I now give him two MagMind capsules about 30 minutes before bedtime. I see a noticeable difference in his ability to settle and fall asleep much faster. The MagMind, combined with our weighted blanket makes our evenings so much easier – and he rises in a much better place!
I take MagMind myself, before bed, and it has an incredible effect on my ability to have a really good night’s sleep. Seems that most of the population is suffering from a deficiency of this very important mineral. This one is great for the whole family.
Sidenote – Calcium, Vitamin D, and magnesium work with each other on many different levels in the body – think of them like the 3 musketeers. Our multi has a good amount of vitamin D, but no calcium. So we take an additional calcium gummy. My kids love it and I will wean them off it when they can take a capsule.
Related: The Best Weighted Blanket for ADHD
Kids Calm Drink Mix
We love the KidsCalm Drink Mix for magnesium and a few other major vitamins. My kids love it so much, I wrote an entire post about it HERE.
This mix contains calming magnesium and focusing B vitamins. There is an overlap with our other supplements, so we don’t double up when my kids drink this. My younger son seems to favor the Bluebonnet Multi, while my older son loves the KidsCalm Drink Mix.
Iron Drops
An iron deficiency is super common in kids with ADHD – which is why I got my son tested at his last doc visit. And turns out, he is super low! Low iron can cause ADHD symptoms in kids – WOW.
We are taking these drops with a few ounces of OJ (Vitamin C helps with iron absorption) in the evening before bed (best on an empty-ish stomach) until we get another blood test. Please consult a doctor before taking Iron, as too much iron can be dangerous.
The cost of these natural remedies for ADHD can add up quickly. This summer, we used KidsCalm Drink mix almost exclusively(with MagMind at night). If you choose just one supplement or want to start slowly, I’d recommend this one first.
Great Lakes Gelatin is great for my carb loving kiddo who hates meat! It packs a real protein punch and is tasteless – really!! I add it to smoothies, oatmeal, and OJ.
It’s great for hair, skin and nails, so I add it to my coffee, too.
Very noticeable results, not a miracle
These supplements are meant to be used as part of an overall nutrition plan and they are not miracle pills. Both of my sons still have struggles with their emotions from time to time. BUT, I have seen a huge difference with these supplements. The calm times far outweigh the crazy ones. These supplements can be a great compliment to ADHD meds, too. I am not a doctor, but I am a mother who has learned from experience and a lot of trial and error. Every ADHD kid is different in what works for them, but these supplements stand to benefit ANY kid. Their quality is outstanding.
Other Ways to Parent ADHD Naturally
This parenting journey can be really difficult and I often find myself standing in front of one of my kids not knowing how to react to something they have just done or said.
My whole outlook and approach to parenting has done a 180 degree turn over the years. Gone are the time outs and sticker charts. Empathy, understanding, and working together to solve problems are what’s in.
Working collaboratively with my kids is what works the best for us. I have an entire post about it here. But suffice it to say, this book, has probably saved my life.
Please let me know how these supplements work for you, if you give them a try! There are Amazon affiliate links in this post, which means that, at no extra cost to you, I may receive a small commission when you purchase these items with these links. These supplements can also be purchased at some health food stores and thru the companies individual websites. Make sure you are purchasing them from a reputable seller.
UPDATE–two years later and we are still using all of these. I have been able to take my son off all his prescription medication. Read about our ADHD Journey Part One and Part Two to see all the details of how we got off ADHD medication and switched to natural treatments for ADHD.
Also, we have gotten so much help from a weighted blanket! My son goes right to sleep and I get peace of mind, knowing bedtime will be so much easier.
More Natural Help for ADHD?
I’ve got a great GIFT GUIDE FOR ADHD BOYS HERE.
Read about my favorite breakfasts for ADHD here.
Our ADHD Story is in two parts, HERE and HERE. See how much we have learned about treating adhd without drugs.
The One Night That Changed My ADHD Parenting, is quickly becoming my most read post on how to parent an ADHD child.
December 18, 2017 @ 10:18 pm
What ages can take MagMind? My little guy is almost six and doesn’t yet swallow pills. Thanks!
December 19, 2017 @ 6:35 pm
Hi Rebecca, my son started taking the pills around 8. Before that we used a magnesium oil that you can rub on the bottoms of feet. Works super well too. You can get it at Whole Foods and other health food stores. Hope that helps!
January 26, 2018 @ 5:09 am
Did you make your own magnesium oil? Or which did you buy? Thank you!
January 26, 2018 @ 5:44 am
HI Theresa,
I purchased my magnesium oil from Fruitful Yield, a local health food store. I do not remember the brand, although I know there were only two choices. Whole Food would be a good place to try, too. Making your own sounds interesting, too. Thanks for your comment.
April 6, 2019 @ 10:58 pm
My son is4 years old he can take mega mind ?
April 7, 2019 @ 8:10 pm
Hi Antonia, I would suggest starting with a magnesium oil. When my kids were little, I rubbed the oil on the bottom of their feet for easy absorption. You can try a good magnesium soak, too.
October 25, 2019 @ 3:29 pm
My son is 11, the struggle is to be focused, to be here now! My husband and I have chosen to get our son to bed earlier, if we can, the struggle is real. We use: “PURE Zzzs” Melatonin+Chamomile & Lavender. Works wonderful!
October 26, 2019 @ 6:58 am
Hi Elizabeth! Thanks for sharing….I will have to check those out!
February 16, 2020 @ 10:31 pm
Hello my son is 3 years old and very stubborn and picky eater… its seem like the only things he will he are things that have no benefit to his health and I have really tried .. he like pizza, spaghetti, cakes,cookies,oatmeal chicken noodle soup, and fried chicken not much else he wont even taste something if he thinks it’s not something he wants .. he has temper tantrums all the time and I try.to do arts and crafts with him but he throws a fit what combination do u suggest for him to be calmer,better , attention span and also getting vitamins that he’s missing … . In desperate
February 17, 2020 @ 7:54 am
Hi Kyra, So sorry you are going thru this, thanks for your note. Food has been our first line of defense and so I would try to find gluten free baked goods he will eat – my kids love the cowboy cookies I have on my blog and you can add things like mama powder and flax and chia seeds to get some good nutrition into him. It’s hard to say without me being there, but have you had him tested for allergies? Gotten bloodwork done? There may be something very easy to eliminate that is causing him so much pain and irritation. We spent a lot of time in nature and that helped immensely. I also totally simplified toys and art supplies to just a few things so as not to overwhelm my kids when they were little. Let me know if any of this helps and write back with more details, if you have time. Sending you hugs!!
March 28, 2020 @ 5:24 am
Thanks so much for this info. We are struggling, our grandson is 6 1/2 & is doing his 2nd year of kindergarten.
He has adhd, extremely hyper, impulsive, emotional & stubborn.
Currently, he is home from school due to the covid19. I am trying daily to keep him busy & working on the basics & making sure he gets lots of exercise. Gonoodle is great on amazon prime. (Dancing & yoga). I definitely want to try some of these supplements for him.
Thanks so much, a struggling Nana.
March 30, 2020 @ 9:48 pm
Jeanne, thanks for writing in. Your grandson is lucky to have you! Let me know if you have any specific questions.
January 4, 2021 @ 9:54 am
Hi Beth, Tyson for putting your supplement journey out here for others to see. I’ve been on the same journey with my now 8 year old son with ADHD and he has the impulse control issues, hyperactive, refuses to eat most foods due tvisual appeal and it’s a metal battle to get him to try new foods, loves all sweets even though he rarely gets any, very stubborn and emotional. Needless to say, we are all drained and only have the one.
Everything is a challenge, or was, before we started supplements with him. We started supplements when he was 5.5 years or so and found an incredible crunchy chocolate ball by GoodDay brand called “Calm”. It comes in child and adult strength and has been a lifesaver for us in lowering his rebelliousness and our stress levels. It has magnesium, L-Theanine, and Chamomile in it and helps him to level out and be more agreeable and less non-compliant.
Second was a strong fish oil (large liquid capsule) to help him focus longer and that’s been good for him.
Third, this year we added Ginko Biloba (small capsule) and it has been helpful in his school time. He’s retaining more and struggling less this year than the years before.
His attention deficit seems less and he’s really doing better overall at home and school.
To add to the fun we also found out that cows milk for him is a neurotoxin and was more or less scrambling his brains so to speak. They were going to test him for autism when he was 4 because so many teachers referred him for testing and we took him off cows milk 3 months before and when they tested him they said there was no signs of autism in him at all. If they had tested him before then, they would have diagnosed him for sure. He is currently on an unsweetened almond milk and is content with his milk over the other. The hardest part of that is school parties or friends birthdays when he can’t have cake and ice cream or milk chocolate treats or cheese crackers and pizza like all the other kids get to. It’s hard for him to not feel left out and separate from his peers who get all that whenever they want because they don’t react to it like someone hit a Tasmanian devil switch in his brain and he flipped out in front of them.
I agree that their diets have so much to do with how they behave and react to the world they live in and are exposed to.
My son before supplements could not manage being in public for anything that didn’t make me feel like I was dropping off a nightmare that traumatized the adults he encountered.
My son after gets good reviews and is now making good grades and is way less stressful for us and others to manage with light redirection. It’s an amazing feeling to know we do all this without a doctors recommendation and no chemical cocktails from big pharma that would also be depleting their bodies of important nutrients and minerals they need to stay healthy.
Bless you and your journey to give your boys their best life possible working with them where they are and not where we want them to be.
All my best to you all, great Mama’s and Grandma’s out there.
January 4, 2021 @ 8:09 pm
Allison!!!! Thanks so much for writing! It’s so great to hear about your journey with your son and all the positive moves he has made. BRAVO to you for trying the natural route and sticking with it! So great of you to share your journey with us so other’s can benefit. I’d love to interview you for the blog and get more deets, it you are willing, drop me an email heyfuzzymama@gmail.com Thanks!!
January 8, 2018 @ 5:04 am
I am a grown up, and still have trouble swallowing pills! One method I have had success with is to put the pill into a spoon of jam or pudding or yogurt…something slippery that doesn’t need chewing. The whole bite, with the pill inside, slides down nicely that way.
January 8, 2018 @ 8:24 am
Yes, Karen! This can help as well. The Jarrow Probiotics are yummy chewables–it’s just the MagMind that can be tricky. Thanks for your thoughts.
January 17, 2018 @ 9:28 pm
I too follow strict guidelines in our house for food. It’s hard, we still hsve some sugar throughout the day, it’s hard to completely be free of it. My 9 year old, does well in school but looking to help with his inattentiveness and his concentrating levels. Would mag mind put him to sleep? I do probiotics and do omega 3 minis. 1,000 I believe of the Nordic brand. Any other suggestions.
January 18, 2018 @ 2:06 pm
I really like the Barleans fish oil..it’s the only omega-3’s we’ve used. In terms of getting to go to sleep easier, my son also uses a weighted blanket by SensaCalm which is amazing!! We also have a bed time routine we stick to even on the weekends and vacations. Let me know if I answered your question! Thanks for asking.
November 4, 2020 @ 5:39 pm
We use melaleuca brand omega 3 creme delight. They have lime and mango. They are delicious and my picky son loves it. It is like eating dessert.
November 7, 2020 @ 7:34 am
Thanks for the suggestion! I love to hear what is working for other families.
January 17, 2018 @ 9:28 pm
I too follow strict guidelines in our house for food. It’s hard, we still hsve some sugar throughout the day, it’s hard to completely be free of it. My 9 year old, does well in school but looking to help with his inattentiveness and his concentrating levels. Would mag mind put him to sleep? I do probiotics and do omega 3 minis. 1,000 I believe of the Nordic brand. Any other suggestions.
January 18, 2018 @ 1:58 pm
I find that when I give my son MagMind about an hour before bed, it helps settle him down so falling asleep is easier. His weighted blanket helps with this, too…I have to write a post about that, too!
July 5, 2018 @ 9:24 am
How can I buy this vitamins?I’m from Philippines..tnx
July 6, 2018 @ 7:01 am
HI Shiela, Do you have access to amazon? You can order many of the vitamins thru them.
September 16, 2018 @ 4:10 pm
I’m also wondering about this! My daughter is also 6
September 24, 2018 @ 5:15 am
HI Elisa, Do you mean dairy in the supplements or the breakfast foods? Not sure which post you are commenting on, thanks for reading.
March 20, 2019 @ 8:28 am
I just received my Kids Calm Multi, but my 3 boys hated the taste. Do you have any suggestions for ways to make it taste better. I hate to waste this whole bottle. I also got the MagMind and i’m excited to see how it helps my boys. Thanks for all your great info!
March 20, 2019 @ 4:23 pm
HI Ruth!! So sorry! You are not alone…my boys took it for years with no complaints….until recently and we just switched to Kids Calm drink mix –my latest post. BUT, others have reported that mixing it in pineapple juice has worked very well. I used to have the fish oil ready so they could gulp that down immediately to help with the taste. You can also hide it in a smoothie or tomato juice. I hope to get back to it because while the drink mix is great…it does not have quite the amount of vitamins, etc.Let me know what works!
April 8, 2020 @ 8:46 pm
Ruth where did you find the discontinued kids calm multi? It is our favorite supplement.
April 9, 2020 @ 9:01 pm
Hi Marcelle, The KidsCalm Multi has been discontinued, but the KidsCalm drink mix is what we have switched to along with another multi. Check out heyfuzzymama on Instagram for our new selections.
Thanks!
April 11, 2020 @ 8:16 pm
Hi. I was wondering if you think these will work on my teen? He was recently diagnosed . He has trouble w/ focus and sleeping. Emotions are all over the place and it wasn’t until recently during therapy they decided to test him. Well anyway, we are not big on pills in this family, but I wanted to see other options. Dr told me that hes too old and it’s better for him to just take meds. I would like to try something natural and hope it can help before meds are given. Any suggestions?
April 12, 2020 @ 9:06 am
Hi Michelle, Thanks for writing. I think there are many things you can try…doctors rarely suggest alternative remedies because they just don’t know about them. Whether you end up doing meds or not, it’s so helpful to look at lifestyle changes. I’d look into sleep – how much and if it’s restful sleep, a weighted blanket and magnesium supplements can help. Nutritional supplements – see my post, but Omega 3 and a good probiotic are essential, exercise! lots of exercise can have an incredible effect. Diet is important, too….low sugar high protein and avoiding artificial dyes(Feingold Diet) Start with one area first – let your intuition guide you as to what to tackle first. Please let me know how it goes…and send me an update email, Michelle.
January 3, 2018 @ 8:05 pm
Where do you normally buy your supplements? I hesitate the quality from Amazon… do you really know what’s in them?
January 3, 2018 @ 8:20 pm
You are right to question buying from Amazon–I get the Jarrow supplements directly from Jarrow who sells on Amazon-not from any other dealers. You can also buy from their website. The KidsCalm and the Barlean’s are sold at Whole Foods and locally in Chicago at Fruitful Yield. Make sure to check the KidsCalm to see that it has not all settled on the bottom. I store mine upside down in the fridge once it’s opened. Let me know if you have any other questions.
March 7, 2019 @ 6:30 am
Hi im having a problem with my 9 year old boy he struggles to read he doesn’t remember most of the things that i helped him with.he is not completing his school work
March 7, 2019 @ 7:37 pm
Hi Rebecca. sorry to hear things are tough for you and your son right now. Do you have a 504 in place at his school? I’d start with his teachers and see what they have been doing to help. I guess I have a few questions, too. Does he struggle to remember everything he reads? Even things he is interested in? Can he read the words, and comprehend at the time and then just forget later? Thanks, just trying to get a better understanding of what he has trouble with.
January 10, 2018 @ 10:25 am
My daughter has ADHD, she is 7. Over a year ago we started her on fish oil (Nature’s Answer, she needs 1000mg DHA per day), probiotics (usually NOW Berrydophilus), Magtein (Life extension) and B-complex vitamins. Her attention span has increased within 2 weeks of starting, she can work better, there are no complaints from the teacher. So we have a very similar protocol as you and have no intention on changing anything, we can really see the benefits. My son has a speech development delay, the same supplements caused a marked improvement a month after starting.
January 10, 2018 @ 5:50 pm
Bravo to you, Marija! So glad to hear that you have found supplements that work for your kids – they are lucky to have you as a mom. Thanks for sharing other brand alternatives that are working for you.
January 29, 2018 @ 8:07 am
I do agree with the B-complex. My son is 12 yr. Old and I started it about 4 weeks ago and found amazing results. I have decrease hi meds intake as a result of cutting out sugar. I also read something about different foods having different affects on him, so as a result I am now teaching him to read labels and to make healthier choices. I was told with the fish oil that the DHA should be higher than the EPA so I give my son a brand call progressive as it’s DHA is very high.
January 30, 2018 @ 4:39 pm
Hi Natalia,
Great job!! What other foods have you noticed a reaction to? We are gluten free and corn free, and now cutting way back on dairy and sugar. We really limited sweets but now are taking it a notch further. What do you pack for lunches? My son is so self-conscious about taking weird or super healthy food to school. I’ve upped my vitamin B, too!
January 31, 2018 @ 3:24 am
Thank you, Beth 🙂
The recommendation on DHA for us was 1000mg per day. The words used by the practitioner were: “this is more important for her than water!” Apparently DHA is a component of the myelin sheath and if there is not enough of DHA, the signals are shooting left and right. A very simplistic explanation (the explanation we received was medical, this is my simplistic version 🙂
October 25, 2018 @ 10:23 am
What B cmplex vitamins?
November 6, 2018 @ 3:16 pm
Hi Crystal! Kids Calm Multi has a good does of the B’s. We take this everyday – yes, I think they are pretty important.
December 14, 2020 @ 8:51 pm
Hi Beth, This is great info! My daughter was chronically ill her inability to get well lead me to natural alternatives. Since then I’ve learned so much about gut health. I saw some comments of parents looking for alternatives to pills because of age.
If you are open, I’d love to share what I found and what many have used for child and adult ADHD and more. With all the new science around gut health it’s very encouraging!! This protocol is so effective that many integrative practitioners, mental health practitioners and even pediatricians and others practicing western medicine are implementing for their patients.
Please contact me as I would love to share! Toni Smith Thompson
Toni.LimeLife@gmail.com
December 15, 2020 @ 5:44 pm
Toni! I’d love to hear more. Please email me at heyfuzzymama@gmail.com Thanks!!
October 24, 2019 @ 9:00 pm
Where can I get this oil ? Amazon ? My son is 5 years old
October 25, 2019 @ 5:23 am
HI, Yes, you can get the Fish Oil on Amazon or a local health food store. Whole foods usually has it, too. Let me know how you like it!
October 25, 2019 @ 12:25 pm
How to can I give for my son ?
January 14, 2018 @ 5:41 pm
What medication is your son on? I love all these ideas! Thank you
January 14, 2018 @ 6:29 pm
Hi Katrina, My son is on Focalin…we tried about 6 different meds before we settled on Focalin. He had been taking 10 mg twice a day, but with the help of these supplements(and other measures) he now takes 5mg twice on school days and 5mg once a day on weekends and holidays. My hope is to eventually go off of it completely. It is so hard to have my son on meds, but right now it does manage his volatile emotions. Thanks for reading!!
February 23, 2018 @ 6:50 am
Incredible article. My son has adh d and tics. We recently have to go on a med break as his side effects are pretty bad. We are also gluten free and low corn as corn makes his tics worse. Focalin was decent for him school wise but HORRIBLE for his tics.😖 Going to look into the supplements you mentioned. We are also just trailing cbd oil, no tch, for his tics and adhd, anxiety. Got his at the health food store. Currently trying to cut dairy but he loves milk..going to sway him with vanilla almond milk.😳Thank for helpful info.
February 23, 2018 @ 9:47 am
Hi Stephanie, Thanks for your comments–sorry to hear about what you are going thru–you are a warrior mama! I have just started hearing abut some different kids of oils too–mct is one. I have to do some research, but its so great to know that I think the tides are turning and we will be hearing so much more about alternative treatments. Focalin helps my son at school, but I think worsens his anxiety and emotional stuff. I’m learning, too, that it’s not just ONE thing, but a bunch of things together that will help. Let me know how it goes and what else works for you guys.
July 16, 2018 @ 9:13 pm
I am here with you about getting his anxiety and moods worst with focalin. Exactly whats hallening to mine at a point that I just stopped giving it to him.
July 17, 2018 @ 8:08 am
Hi Nancy, We stopped my son of all focalin this summer and his anger has really subsided. I hate that what I thought was going to help was actually causing things to get worse. We will start school in the fall 100% med free, so crossing my fingers!
May 10, 2018 @ 4:33 pm
Stephanie, my son has ADHD and Autism. We were having trouble with tics as well on any stimulant medicine we tried. We put him on a dose of intuniv (guavicine) which is a non-stimulant and the tics stopped. They were due to the reaction of the ADHD medicine to his Autism. Thought it might help.
Love this article, Beth – Thank you for writing it. We are just starting to try vitamins and reduce our medication.
May 12, 2018 @ 7:44 am
Thanks Jeni, it’s always great to hear what’s working for people. Let me know how the supplements go.
February 18, 2020 @ 10:17 am
when you say that he take the focalin twice on schools days. do you mean two pills m-f or just two pills a week? I ask because I have my son on focalin and I really want him off of it. how ever i need someone i can talk to about what foods and supplements are best I feel am at a lost. i have spoken to doctors and I have that under control. I took him off of meat and i am trying to take him off of breads but its hard. I feel like I need to pick your brain and cut a lot of the bullshit because if i type one thing online, I get hit this so much i dont know whats what. sorry that was a lot.
February 20, 2020 @ 5:44 am
Hi Lynda!! Oh I feel your pain! When I took my son off focalin he was doing 10mg in the morning and 10mg at noon. We cut in in half for awhile first. And then we even cut that in half to ease him off and see what the results would be. Teachers saw some hyper behaviors they had never seen before, but other than that, it was so much better!! At the same time we started supplements and magnesium and got him a weighted blanket for sleep. If you haven’t already, read a fe of my posts, like our ADHD story to get more details, my Instagram account – heyfuzzymama – shows our latest hunt for vitamins and what we are taking now – as well as our supplements blog post. Let me know if you have anymore questions!
January 15, 2018 @ 8:00 am
Thank you for this! Have an almost 6 yo and at his next med check will ask about these!! I echo the comment re: the emotions when my LO is not medicated. Holy emotions Batman!!
January 15, 2018 @ 9:49 am
Hi Amelia, Great to address this when your son is young..for us the emotions are a much bigger problem than hyperactivity or inattentiveness. A weighted blanket has also done WONDERS for him. Good Luck, let me know how it goes. Thanks for your comment – this journey can be so lonely at times.
January 17, 2018 @ 3:32 am
Hi Beth, crazy emotions over here too. Just wondering what a weighted blanket is and how it works. Thanks!
January 17, 2018 @ 8:39 am
A weighted blanket(some kids benefit from weighted vests) helps to calm kids by providing pressure and sensory input. It also helps to release serotonin in the brain. My son did a short stint with an OT and she suggested it. We use it at bedtime and he falls asleep so easily under it. We bought ours from SensaCalm-check the sale section and make sure to get the correct size. They are expensive, but by far has been worth every penny. My son as a baby LOVED to be swaddled super tight, so that was a good indicator that the pressure would be beneficial for him. Thanks for asking and let me know if you have any other questions!!
February 23, 2018 @ 6:55 am
Yes the emotions are way worse than the adhd. Volatile and emotional and exhausting if Im truly honest. I spend a lot of time researching how to get him to a good place and in the process believe are family is healthier. Has forced me to look at food and all the junk.
February 23, 2018 @ 9:56 am
My journey is very much the same….I have begun to look at my son as a gift to our family in so many unexpected ways. I would never have researched this much and changed our entire life for the better if I was not always searching for a way to figure out his stuff and make things easier for him. But, it’s tough for sure. You’re doing great things, mama!!
January 17, 2018 @ 9:52 pm
About two years ago, my doctor introduced me to inositol. Inotistol is technically part of the B-vitamins, but it is vital for energy process in the body including neurotransmittion. There are have several studies done on its effects in bipolar, panic disorders, and depression. It is newer to the scene of ADD, but I can tell you personally-in addition to what you suggest above-this supplement (I use the powder, which a slight sugary taste and can be mixed with anything) has allowed me to go completely off my ADD meds! Are there times where I need a boost, yes. During those times, I will use essential oils. I don’t know if you are interested in either path, but if you are be sure to do your own research.
January 18, 2018 @ 1:54 pm
Wow…I will do some research…interesting. Thanks! Always looking for more information. Thanks for letting me know!!!
January 19, 2018 @ 3:35 pm
My son is 9 and he takes Natural Vitality every morning. He also struggles with emotions as well as trouble sleeping. I’m interested in trying the Magmind at bedtime. I guess what I’m asking is that too much magnesium daily if he takes both?
January 19, 2018 @ 4:08 pm
He takes The Natural Vitality,( which is the one you had in pic )has 240 mg of magnesium. He’s not on any other meds. He has recently been diagnosed and unfortunately my Dr really hasn’t been helpful. I’ve spent countless hours researching tips on parenting, meds, you name it. Since he takes the Natural Vitality Kids calm in the morning I was debating the magnesium before bed.
January 19, 2018 @ 6:57 pm
HI Christine,
I know what it’s like to not have a helpful doc. Mine did talk about the magnesium and okayed it with my son. Sorry, I always call it KidsCalm-didn’t recognize the name! it’s 240 to 420mg a day for tweens….Have you ever tried giving him the Kid’sCalm at night? I also bought a weighted blanket from SensaCalm for my son which REALLY helps him fall asleep. Let me know if I can answer anything else!
January 19, 2018 @ 8:30 pm
HI Christine, Okay, the recommended amount for boys 10 and up about is 240 to 350mg a day, so he’s right on the edge. Sorry your doctor is not being helpful. Have you tried to take the KidsCalm at night? Our weighted blanket also helps at night a great deal. See above for more details. Hope that helps! Bravo to you for all the research you are doing….seems necessary as so many people in the medical community don’t have much to offer.
January 22, 2018 @ 2:32 pm
I was wondering on the mag mind It days 3 capsules per serving, am I supposed to give my hold 3 capsules at one time every single day or is one in the morning and around noon good? Thank you
January 22, 2018 @ 9:24 pm
Hi Jamie, It depends on a child’s age. My son is 11 now so we do 2 capsules at night because the Kid’s Calm also has magnesium. Hope that helps.The magnesium really relaxes, so I like to make sure we take some at night.
January 23, 2018 @ 6:02 am
Not really, so in your blog you give him one capsule when he wakes up and another when he gets home from school? So are you saying you also give him two capsules at night along with the calm?
January 23, 2018 @ 2:24 pm
Jamie Sorry to confuse, I’ll add this to our update because I’m always tweaking when I give him these. Most days we do Kidscalm, YumYum dophilous, and Fish oil in the morning and then 2 MagMinds at night. I find the Magnesium helps him fall asleep much easier. Thanks for asking!!!
January 23, 2018 @ 2:55 pm
Okay that clears it up! Thank you! I just purchased all of this yesterday so I was trying to get it almost exact as to your routine. Thank you again 🤗
January 23, 2018 @ 5:48 pm
Super! Let me know how it goes.
January 24, 2018 @ 8:19 pm
This is awesome!
My son is 8 and he started taking Quilivant XR. He was doing good on it but the meds are on back order so his pediatrician switched him to Focalin. He recently started the new medication. I can’t say if it’s working for him but Your post is super helpful! I’ve tried to find natural supplements that help with ADHD but it’s been difficult finding something that works because these supplements get pricey! He’s currently taking a mega food called vayarin; it’s basically omega 3 at a more potent dose. (EXPENSIVE!) Can’t tell you if that’s working because they say it takes 3 months for you to notice a difference and he’s on month 2. I might try the one you suggested when those pills are done. I’m struggling with him right now. He’s having behavioral issues, forgetting things and inattentive. He has an auditory processing disorder as well which many symptoms are similar to adhd. Anyway, thank you for sharing I needed to read this!
January 26, 2018 @ 5:42 am
HI Brittany, so glad to hear you are trying some natural supplements. These waters are so hard to navigate. I have not heard of the supplement your son is taking, will check that out. It takes a lot of gentle, curious parenting which is not always easy when dealing with challenging behaviors. Let me know how it goes!
February 1, 2018 @ 8:44 pm
Brittany, we are in the same boat. We have enough Quillivant XR to last thru Feb and are meeting with his drs next week. This blog post has been so helpful! Thank you, Beth!
Curious- how do y’all monitor what they eat at school? I visited the school around lunch last week and found my son with Doritos powder all around his mouth bc a friend didn’t want his chips! I would have never known if I hadn’t just happened to have been there at lunch. Currently we do not have specific food restrictions and I know it will be a battle to even do half of the things you have mentioned re: food. Yikes! Help!
February 3, 2018 @ 8:23 am
HI Catherine, Thanks for your comment/question. Eating at school is REALLY tricky. When my kids went to a Montessori school they were not allowed to share and were easily monitored. Now at public middle school its a free for all! My son talks about how he shares his food with others, so I am sure he eats other people’s food. We do not have specific allergies, but we follow a gluten free, corn free and super low sugar diet. He likes nothing weird in his lunch, so I try to buy healthy foods that look like their crappy counterparts-packages of trail mix, sweet potato chips, larabars, etc. I also pack two servings of vegetables and say they can eat those after school if they want. Not putting pressure on them to eat it all has helped–they just bring those items home and eat them first after school. I think if I said they had to eat them, they’d just throw them away at school. I don’t go crazy thinking about it (because I could!) I just make sure that at home we eat super duper good stuff. Friends, please chime in–I want to get some other ideas, too!
May 25, 2018 @ 9:11 pm
Brittany,
Do you have an update on the vayarin? It’s been rec for my son, but so expensive, and not a lot of reviews of it! Would love to hear of your experience with it!
Thanks!
May 26, 2018 @ 6:12 pm
Hi Tracy, no luck!
Trying to change his diet and stay consistent with natural remedies. He’s off all meds.
February 5, 2018 @ 4:21 pm
Hi there- I am really enjoying reading everyone’s comments. Very informative. My son is 5 and we are having a great deal of trouble with him in school. He is having difficulty retaining information, sitting still in class and so on. We have been to the see a pediatrician who wanted to start him on medication at 4 years old. We have decided not to do meds at this time and try diet change and vitamins. I’m looking for any suggestions you can give for a younger boy. Thanks!
February 6, 2018 @ 5:03 pm
Hi Brittny! Bravo to you for investigating other options. I always recommend looking at sleep(at least 10 hours a night), omitting gluten, corn and sugar(we don’t omit sugar but are SUPER low), getting lots of exercise and time in nature. Sorry if these are all obvious to you – they have been super important to us pretty much forever. Let me know what’s working.
February 7, 2018 @ 8:08 pm
Hi, I loved you article. My son is 12, 13 next mo. Has ADHD along with several other diagnosis and a fish allergy. Do you have any ideas for a substitute for fish oil?
February 9, 2018 @ 4:50 pm
Katie,
Have you tried Algae oil? Algae is where fish get there nutrients – so probably very beneficial. Flaxseed oil is also good–just does not have everything that fish oil has. Let me know if you try the algae oil!
February 9, 2018 @ 8:14 pm
So my son is 9 and a half and has always beenin his own world and more quiet and reserved, yet very creative and visual. I have been getting Nordic Natural omegas ultra teen 12-15,
Because it is higher. They were out of it so I got the omega minis this time around however it’s just a little less. I also got the kids calm too. What is your logic on the different amounts of omegas to help with spaceyness and inattentiveness?
February 10, 2018 @ 10:34 am
Hi Mary Beth, Thanks for your comment. I see both of my sons in your description. What is interesting to note is that inattentiveness can be reworded to “selective attention”. My kids have great attention when they are doing a preferred activity- like reading or drawing-or the rare video game. I think it’s hard to pinpoint exactly the benefits of fish oil for ADHD-some research says there is no effect. What I notice in my own children is a general ability to focus a bit more, a higher frustration level, and just better all around mood. Transition times are a bit easier, etc. That said, we have never taken the fish oil in isolation of the other supplements. They are probably all working together. This article has some more details, too.
What also helps us, too is regular exercise (mostly forced by me!) and very low screen time. Hope this helps….tell me more if I am not answering your question. Thanks- you are doing good, mama!
February 8, 2018 @ 8:54 am
Hi! I am wondering how the liquid supplements that you suggested taste? I have a super picky 6 year old and a 13 year old that is the same way. Normally neither child can tolerate any type of liquid medicine, so I was curious?
February 9, 2018 @ 4:52 pm
Hi Jamie,
The fish oil is way better than the KidsCalm. I have one picky eater and one not so picky. Both take the liquids without a problem. They do the KidsCalm first and then the fish oil. Do they do gummy vitamins? I have seen some kids fish oil supplements in that form.
February 8, 2018 @ 6:50 pm
How do the supplements that you mentioned taste? Both of my kids also have spd and are terribly picky!
February 9, 2018 @ 4:56 pm
Crystal, The KidsCalm is not as good as the fish oil. My kids take the fish oil last so they have a better taste in their mouth! Do your kids like gummy vitamins? There are some fish oil brands that make them in gummy form. Let me know if you try them!
February 20, 2018 @ 3:21 pm
My soon to be 7 yr old has ADHD and I just bought the Magmind. I notice it says give 3 capsules. Did you give your child all 3 a day or just one at a time? Really appreciate your posting it has help save many mothers time and money
February 21, 2018 @ 3:23 pm
Hi Jessica, Thanks for your question and so glad my sharing helps. We have tried everything under the sun and found somethings that really work. I believe 240 mg. is the max for kids 6 to 10 for magnesium. It depends on what other supplements you are giving and if they have magnesium or not. We do the KidsCalm in the am and then 2 MagMinds at night. I find that the night time dose is the most helpful at getting my son to calm and go to sleep–we take it about 45 mins to an hour before bedtime. Hope that helps!! Let me know how it goes.
February 26, 2018 @ 7:08 pm
Have you ever tried essential oils?
February 27, 2018 @ 2:51 pm
Hi Kris! Funny you should ask….I just heard a great podcast about them and am looking into them more. I have tried a diffuser in the past with mixed results…..I like it, my kids like it, but did not see such an effect. What have you tried?
March 7, 2018 @ 8:14 am
I need help! Most of the comments list the kids as being in the 7 to 10 year old range. I have a 14 year old that is 5′ 11″ and weighs 174 pounds. He is very active in sports. He takes Focalin XR 10 mg currently. He says it is ineffective after about 2nd hour at school. Any suggestions for vitamin supplements to help? The Focalin gives him headaches and he would chose healthy methods over medications any day.
March 7, 2018 @ 6:56 pm
Hi Gale! Has your son tried magnesium? Because he is older, he’ll be able to take 3 of the MAGMIND capsules. Would he take one or two at lunch? SmartyPants has a TeenBoy version that looks interesting, too. Do you notice a difference in his behavior or demeanor when he exercises a lot? My son was in Cross Country in the fall and BOY! did that help with his focus and emotions. Fish Oil is good for any age…my husband with ADHD takes that with the boys in the morning. Let me know what you try!
March 7, 2018 @ 8:35 pm
So I am curious about the MagMind…you only give 2? The bottle says 2 in am and 1 at night. Do you only give at night since you do the Kids Calm in the AM? Would that much MagMind in the AM cause sleepiness at school? Looking to start some supplements and don’t want to give too much of something.
March 8, 2018 @ 7:58 pm
Hi Jackie,
I do only give two of the MagMind because the KidsCalm already has some magnesium in it. I don’t think it would be enough to make anyone sleepy at school. It just has a nice calming effect–I really notice at night. Makes it much easier for my son to nod off.
Thanks for your comment!
March 31, 2018 @ 3:17 pm
Hi
Thanks for sharing this valuable information! From one mom with children with special needs to another: Try to google integration of primary reflexes in relation to ADHD. Some osteopats can help and also there are exersices that can be done to integrate the reflexes and help our children.
Greatings
March 31, 2018 @ 3:20 pm
Hello Ditte,
Have you had success with this? Our speech path at school told us all about primary reflexes and gave us some exercises to do. I never really tried them because I did not know which ones to do specifically. Have you heard of Brain Gym? Similar exercises? Thanks for your response, I’ll do a little googling.
Warmly, Beth
March 31, 2018 @ 7:54 pm
Hi,
How long would you say kids calm last? My son is 8 and has had difficulty in school since kindergarten. Up until now it hasn’t disturbed his learning but, his test grades have dropped drastically. I’ve ordered all of these supplements but, not sure what ratio to start. If school starts at 8am what time should I give the am supplements?
Also can a 4 yr old take the magmind supplements?
March 31, 2018 @ 8:26 pm
Hi Sherrelle,
Thanks for your note. I would say to give the KidsCalm as close to school time as possible. I usually give it to my son on his way out the door. I don’t think of the supplements as lasting a certain amount of time, like meds do. I think with supplements its the daily consistency that matters. As far as testing, my younger son has accommodations at school for testing. That helps, too.
Magmind is a bit too much magnesium for a 4 year old. We used magnesium oil when my boys were smaller. It is used topically on the bottoms of feet or the back of the neck. Let me know how you like the supplements.
April 2, 2018 @ 3:21 pm
I appreciate your response so much. We went to our physician’s office today and it was as I expected, ADHD 🙁 We are going to try these supplements before making a drastic jump to medications which his father is against. I am going to get an IEP done on him as well so we can cover all my bases.
April 2, 2018 @ 6:06 pm
The ADHD diagnosis is so baffling. Both of my boys have ADHD and could not be more different. You will discover so many gifts that our kids have, too! Bravo for not starting out with meds. We are not even starting them with our youngest son. Let me know if I can help in any other way. Hugs to you and your family.
April 3, 2018 @ 5:54 pm
Do you have any suggestions for the Magmind pill? My 8 hr is not able to swallow those. He takes forever and I can’t explain to him an easy way to do it. Should I just go buy a powder? We both end up so frustrated and sometimes tears flow. I just want to give it all my best shot to get him on a stable path.
April 3, 2018 @ 7:07 pm
Hi Sherrelle, Do you have the Magmind capsules? Can you open them up and mix in with a bit of OJ? Otherwise, magnesium oil rubbed on the bottoms of feet or the back of the neck works great. Take the Magmind yourself–it makes me sleep REALLY well. Hope that helps, Beth
April 3, 2018 @ 10:21 pm
Just want to say thanks for posting this!! I have a 4 year old who hasn’t been diagnosed, but with everything I’ve read and researched I truly think it’s ADHD. He started taking the KidsCalm about 2 weeks ago in the morning before daycare and that along with no processed sugar and no screentime has made a big difference. Bedtime is also a huge issue for us so I will definitely be trying the magnesium on his feet along with a weighted blanket. Thanks again!!
April 4, 2018 @ 8:17 am
Bravo to you!!! I think that no/low sugar and minimal screen time have as great an effect as the supplements. My boys at 9 and 11 still have very minimal screen time which is VERY different than their peers, but I’m sticking to it. Thanks for reading!!
April 10, 2018 @ 9:39 pm
My son has adhd also. I will be ordering all the supplements ASAP to try. Thank you for the info!!!
**The only thing I have to add that I feel might be helpful to the possible cause of the emotional breakdowns list that is trying to eliminate anything with Yellow 5 dye in it. That seems to make my son hyperactive, moody, irritated and defiant so we try to stay away for that as much as we can. You’d be surprised how many foods have it in it. Just wanted to pass that along.
April 11, 2018 @ 8:14 pm
Thanks Keista, Yes, many dyes sneak into things..thanks for reminder!
April 12, 2018 @ 5:58 am
I started the supplements about 2 weeks now. How do I know if they are working? My son seems more tired than normal is all I can see.
April 12, 2018 @ 7:13 pm
Hi Sherrelle, I can say that with my son it took some time…and I continued to see improvement the longer we took the supplements. We are also in therapy which helps immensely. I see the supplements as part of a whole plan for us–but for some people its all they need. I’d give it some time, but you may have to tweak the magnesium if he’s still tired. You could just do it at night to help sleep. Thanks for checking in.
April 12, 2018 @ 7:42 pm
I’m still trying to get an IEP done and get concrete information. The pediatrician didn’t do anything she just went off the papers we filled out.
April 17, 2018 @ 12:57 pm
Such A great read!! My son is 11 years old and was diagnosed with ADHD about four years ago. He has been on a couple medications, and the side effects were not worth it. Between the weight-loss, the insomnia and the paranoia, I felt like I was a mother to a zombie. He has been off medication for about three months now. I am really interested in the suggestions above. What was the daily regimen. How many of the capsules of t A great read!! My son is 11 years old and was diagnosed with ADHD about four years ago. He has been on a couple medications, and the side effects were not worth it. Between the weight-loss, the insomnia and paranoia, I felt like I was a mother to a zombie. He has been off medication for about three months now. I am really interested in the suggestions above. What was the daily regimen? I ordered the MagMind. And i am interested in the Kids Calm Multi. Were you worried that it was ever too much magnesium? Also, did you put the fish oil in a juice? Was the probiotic given everyday in the am? I new to all this. Thank you for this post!!! It gives me so much hope!!!
April 17, 2018 @ 7:23 pm
Hi Ashley, We do 2 MagMinds at night. We are still close to the daily amount for magnesium and my son tolerates it well. These effect everyone differently so you may have to tweak things a bit from our regime. We do 2TBSP of Kids Calm in the am with Fish oil and 2 of the probiotic chewable tabs. The Kids Calm has some fish oil in it, too, but my kids tolerate the Barleans well. Let me know how it goes!
May 7, 2018 @ 5:53 pm
Hello! I have a 9 (she’ll be 10 later this month) year old and an 8 year old: how much MagMind should I give them? Their daily multi-vitamin doesn’t list magnesium and the only other supplement they take is Barleans Fish Oil Swirl. My 9-almost-10 year takes an Rx for ADHD in the mornings and my 8 year old doesn’t have any Rx right now. Would it be 2 capsules of MagMind in the AM for the older girl, with 1 at night for her, and then 1 in the morning and 1 at night for the younger daughter? Thanks for your tips!
May 8, 2018 @ 9:02 am
Hi Cindy, Thanks for your question. 240mg (350mg max)is the recommended dose of magnesium for a 10 year old. So if you are doing the MagMind exclusively for magnesium, then 3 per day is great. You want to account for kids getting some magnesium from food, too. If sleep is an issue save 2 until a 1/2 hour or so before bedtime.
Try 2 for your younger child and see if that helps…you could probably do three for her as well, if you don’t see results.
We also did a blood test to see about mineral deficiencies – and my son tested low for iron and zinc – two markers for ADHD. So we are giving him additional iron and zinc for awhile. His magnesium was fine, I am sure due to all that we take, but you want to make sure that you don’t go over board on supplements, either.
Start on the lower end and you can always modify! Let me know how it goes!
May 9, 2018 @ 7:16 am
Hi, thank you for sharing this information. I am excited to get started. My kids tried the Kids calm Multi last night and all hated the taste! Any tips? They could smell and taste it even after I mixed with Apple juice and water. Thank you!
May 9, 2018 @ 8:45 pm
HI Nichole, Oh no! My kids do not love the taste but they tolerate it. They take the Kids Calm first and then quickly take the fish oil or the probiotics which both taste yummy to them. Would they try the old trick of plugging their noses? If it’s that bad, you don’t want to make your life miserable by forcing them. They might get used to the taste, too? We usually mix gross stuff with really pulpy OJ. The texture kind of masks icky tastes.
If anyone has a suggestion please comment – Nichole, I am sure your kids are not the only ones.
May 13, 2018 @ 8:55 pm
Hi Bev,
I came across your blog about 2 mths ago. Thank you. My 10 yr old son is diagnosed with ADD and impulsivity. Not on any meds, although they were recommended (trying to avoid this)but having behavioral challenges at school and opposition issues. Got him on your regimen a month ago. Started seeing some improvement in week 2. Week 3 was heaven, but then he began complaining of stomach pain after taking MagMind in pm and threw up. We switched to one MagMind am and one pm instead of Kidscalm. Now the improvement seems to be wearing off. My pediatrician is convinced magnesium works solely on placebo effect. I was so hopeful, now getting discouraged. Any advice? After reading book Finally Focused, wondering if maybe in need of zinc?
BTW Thank you so much for all your work. It’s so nice to know I’m not alone.
Also, we found that combining Kidscalm with mango juice masked the bad flavor quite well.
May 13, 2018 @ 9:46 pm
Hi Carolyn,
So promising to hear you got some results, but sorry about the tummy issue. Can you link it to anything else? Dairy? His stomach was not empty, right? Zinc has been shown to be deficient in ADHD kids. If you can get a blood test. My son just showed up really low in iron, so we are doing a little iron boost to see if it goes back up. You might already be vigilant about food, but I notice a BIG change in both of my kids around sugar and even gluten free bread(which is basically processed carbs)
What I know to be true for us is that vitamins are one piece of the puzzle. We watch our food, go to therapy, get lots of exercise…when one of these gets out of balance, I notice and have to tweak to get things back. It’s a bit of a never ending checks and balances system.
Thanks for the mango juice advice–KidsCalm can be icky tasting for kids.
May 29, 2018 @ 1:21 pm
My son is 11 diagnosed with ADHD and Autism as well as Anxiety and Impulsiveness. It’s been a rollercoaster ride since he was 4 and has been medicated on his recent regimen since 6. I’ve been worrying about long term effects lately and not sure where to start. I’m afraid of taking him off his meds which include Folcalin, Methylphinadate, Lexapro and Resperidone. (yes I know.. it’s quite alot) any tips on where I should begin. His pediatricians haven’t really been helpful and ask me to rely on his psychiatrist opinion which is all the meds.
May 29, 2018 @ 8:08 pm
Hi Tanya, Sorry your doctor isn’t more helpful, seems to be the norm, sadly. I’d have a conversation with your psychiatrist about where to try cutting back a bit. It can’t hurt to start some supplements while you are weighing your options with meds. Food is also HUGE with us…we are gluten free, corn free, dye free, super low sugar, and starting to go dairy free. I really notice a difference with that too. The difficulty with ADHD and other diagnosis, is that there is not just one solution, but a bunch of things that come together to make things better. I worry about long term side effects too and feel like my kid is a guinea pig. Will summer bring some relief with no school? I know my son’s anxiety really improves.Thanks for your comment, let me know what happens.
May 30, 2018 @ 12:21 pm
Summer seems to help with anxiety level, he dislikes leaving the house so it’s a win, but I will be trying out supplements and diet, which I think will be difficult, he’s been eating everything in plain sight other than meat, he doesn’t like meat. Thank you for your suggestions!
May 30, 2018 @ 12:44 pm
Hi Tanya, Glad you and he will get some relief over the summer. If you have not read the work of Ross Greene, take a look at it – it’s helped me learn to parent my child in a totally different way than I was parented!
Take care, you got this!
May 31, 2018 @ 10:50 pm
This is just the information I needed. I have been searching what supplements for my 9 yr daughter. She has ADHD with an extra dose of Impulsive. A long journey has proven that she cannot eat gluten or any petroleum based products such as artificial colors and flavorings, TBHQ, BHA, and BHT. Still need to reduce the sugar. Thank you for your list of supplements.
June 1, 2018 @ 6:47 pm
Hi Laura, YES! Same with us….I try really hard to stay away from those things, too. It’s incredible to think complete junk most kids eat. Good Job, mama!
June 18, 2018 @ 8:38 pm
Along with ADD, my grandson suffers from anxiety and depression. He has had emotional outbursts as well. He also still wets his bed every nite. He’s 10 and will be 11 in Oct. Has anyone found bedwetting issues with ADD? Focalin seems to have helped the ADD some but I’d like my daughter to start working with the natural supplements along with the Focalin. Thank you for the info.
June 19, 2018 @ 5:58 am
Hi Deb. Thanks for your comment. Yes to the bedwetting! My younger son(9) still struggles with it from time to time. I have heard it’s more common than you think – no one talks about it! I am taking a class online about integrating reflexes. Too early to talk about it, as I have just started, but it’s worth a look on the net. I will definitely share my findings in a few months once I get a bit more into the class. Look at http://www.moveplaythrive with Sonia Story.
July 11, 2018 @ 11:46 am
Do you avoid corn and all its derivatives? I notice the supplements contain some corn sources. I have a son that’s allergic to corn, so I was trying to see if my daughter (the one with adhd) is possibly reacting to corn as well.
July 12, 2018 @ 7:11 am
HI Ashley, You are so smart to be thinking about corn! My kids are basically corn free, but there are some things that are so hard to avoid, like the small amounts of sweeteners. Neither of my kids have any food allergies, but I am pretty vigilant about processed foods, corn and gluten. But some stuff does sneak in. : (If your daughter takes capsules, there are some good fish oil brands and I have not checked the label on Nordic Naturals – they might be totally corn free. Thanks for your comment, I’d love to hear how you navigate your son’s corn allergy – I bet you have some great tips and resources. If you have time, can you share them on my Fuzzymama Facebook page?
August 6, 2018 @ 12:21 pm
Hi Beth,
Thank you for your post! I am wondering if you know any adults who have used these supplements for their ADHD? I am 20 and in college, I’m trying to lessen the meds I’m taking and wondering if these might work for me?
August 6, 2018 @ 1:45 pm
Hi Rose, I am sure they will work! Give them a try – you have nothing to loose. I find that also cutting back on sugar dramatically helps my boys. Diet is so important, too. Let me know how it goes!
August 17, 2018 @ 12:07 am
Hi, great article, thank you! I also am trying to change my sons diet, it is so hard he is a very picky eater. I bought the Calm, do you mix it with something? Everything I try he knows something is in it, also is the fish oil a liquid they drink? I bought him magnesium chewables and he doesn’t like those either, I am so fustrated, I want him to take these things but am having trouble getting him too:( Any suggestions?
August 17, 2018 @ 9:41 am
Hi Erin, Thanks for your note. A few ideas: My kids don’t love the KidsCalm taste, but we take it right before the Barleans Fish Oil, which is YUMMY. For magnesium, try an Epsom salt bath at night or the magnesium oil that you rub on their feet or back of neck at night(or anytime!). People have said that mixing the Calm in Pineapple juice works because it’s so sweet. Try a bit of it in a smoothie, or try to have him take just a teaspoon and work his way up? Will he eat salmon? That’s really the BEST way to get the fish oil, but my kids HATE fish. Rainbow Light and SmartyPants are some decent vitamin brands that have gummy vitamins you might try, too. Let me know what works for you! Keep up the great work, mama!
August 21, 2018 @ 4:20 am
Hi! My son is 8, and about 70 pounds. I was think My of trying your plan… I saw your son was 7… the one I was concerned about was MagMind…you give your son 2 per day? Am/pm?
August 21, 2018 @ 7:42 am
HI Kim, thanks for your note. The KidsCalm has magnesium in it too, so I usually do the magmind at night, KidsCalm in the am. If you are worried about it being too much magnesium, try one or none at night and see how they tolerate the KidsCalm. We started with magnesium oil at bedtime on their feet for awhile before they could swallow a pill. My boys just turned 10 and 12! so we have tweaked it over the years, but still do this regime nearly every day!Also Epsom Salt baths give them some magnesium, so you can try this at night instead of MagMind. Let me know how it goes!
August 21, 2018 @ 11:35 am
Hi!
Thank you so much for all the information you share. I can’t wait to try these supplements on my 11-year-old son with ADHD.
I just bought a supplement of probiotics and MagMind thanks to your recommendation, what dose and at what time do you suggest I give him Magmind? He are currently taking only one carnitine supplement.
Greetings from El Salvador
August 23, 2018 @ 5:54 am
Hi Reyna! I have varied the time my kids take their MagMind. At the moment we are taking KidsCalm in the am and MagMind at night(2 capsules, my son is 12). My son seems to be adjusting to school nicely, so he does not need anymore calming in the am. Rather, he needs it at night to settle him for sleep. I’d start with one tablet and see if you see anything and then move to 2. Let me know how it goes!
August 23, 2018 @ 4:00 am
Hi. I am in South Africa. I have a 12yr son who is ADHD. He’s been on Ritalin since middle of gr4. Then recently a found Focus Formula and Bright Spark by Feelgood Health. They are completely herbal / homeopathic. Feelgood Health ships internationally as well. This has really been helping him. Along with that his is a good salmon fish oil supplement and MemorX syrup, he is also gluten free and almost junk free… Lol. And in combination with all of this I do reflexology treatment on his feet. Being on the natural path so has been really good.
August 23, 2018 @ 5:57 am
Hi Pritha! Way to Go!! I will have to look into those supplements, thanks for more suggestions. I love to hear what is working for people. The reflexology sounds great and what a nice bonding time for you guys, too.
November 5, 2018 @ 11:50 am
Would you recommend all the same supplements or make ay changes if the child had ADD not ADHD?
November 6, 2018 @ 3:18 pm
Hi Melanie, Both of my boys have ADHD, although one has very little “H”. The only difference is that he does not take the MagMind at night. He has no problem falling asleep and staying asleep. Magnesium is a mellower for us, but also very important, so my youngest just gets the Mag in the Kids Calm. Thanks for asking!!
November 10, 2018 @ 4:48 pm
This was a great post! We use Smarty Pants vitamins with omegas rather than the vitamin you mentioned, because it also has other things (vitamin D3, methylfolate, a couple of the B viamins, omega 3’s, and a couple of other things research has mentioned), along with Barleans, a calcium, magnesium, zinc blend tablet, along with avoiding milk casein, since it makes my son extremely nasty, processed foods, red dye, HFCS, caffeine, and excess sugar. We just started him back on an extremely low dose of medication after walking away from him being completely drugged up 2 years ago. Now we have a doctor who supports the combination. I will be checking out the Jarrows this week now that I have some parent feedback on it.
We don’t have cable, the only video games he has are “sandbox” games, or otherwise mind engaging, and they’re reserved for weekends only. During the week, he reads, does school computer work, it has activities. Now if we could just get his school to follow the IEP that was THEIR suggestion and a lot of their input, things would be pretty ideal, because he’s amazingly well behaved at home!
November 10, 2018 @ 8:55 pm
You are doing such a great job!! I’d like to stop Dairy, too….if you don’t mind me asking, what do you notice when your kiddo has dairy? That’s one thing we have not given up completely…we do have yogurt and free pizza occasionally. Thanks for reading!!!
December 30, 2018 @ 1:37 am
Hi, Beth, I am getting ready to guest post this post after TNY. Do you have the image of all the 4 products? I took a screen shot of it in your side bar, but need a full size. Could you send it to deeprootsathome@gmail.com if you have it? I will use it not for the top image, but in the middle…I think. Still working on how it will be in my head. 🙂 Thanks, Jacqueline
December 30, 2018 @ 8:12 pm
Surely…sending it along, Thanks!!!
January 9, 2019 @ 6:06 pm
This has been so helpful! I have a 11 year old son. I have been researching a lot and came across your site! We ordered everything you suggested. He stared the kids calm and we all saw some immediate changes. He was so sweet and polite and seemed a lot happier. I didn’t want to get my hopes up to much but it’s been 4 days and we are continuing to see these changes! I am amazed. I just received the Megmind and fish oil. My question is when should I give him the megmind? I have been doing kids calm 2x a day. Morning and bedtime. Should I do Megmind before school and kids calm at bedtime? Thanks for all your information. It’s been a huge help!
January 10, 2019 @ 5:45 am
Hi Alana! Great news!! I am so glad the KidsCalm is helpful for your son. My advice is to take the Magmind at a different time than the KidsCalm. We do KidsCalm in the am and Magmind in the PM(about 45 mins before bed.) Since the KidsCalm contains magnesium, you don’t want to give the two at the same time. I’d start with one magmind at a time. Let me know how it goes! Thanks for reading.
March 12, 2019 @ 5:46 pm
Going to start with the MagMind and Kids Calm Multi. I was wondering if in the beginning with any of the magnesium supplements, if there were any adverse tummy issues. I have read that they can cause stomach cramps, diarrhea, etc. Also, on the MagMind the serving size says 3 capsules. How many do you give? My son is 7.5
March 12, 2019 @ 8:29 pm
Hi Meg! We started with Magnesium Oil when my kids were 4 and 6…then moved to kids calm and then magmind when they could swallow the pill, so they had gradually increased their magnesium intake. I say slower is better – start with kids calm in am and one MagMind at night and see. Of course, I am not a doctor and can only rec. what worked for us. You may even want to just start with the Kids calm and see how that does alone. My oldest, who is 13 takes the kids calm in the am and 2 to 3 MagMind at night and has no side effects. Let me know what works, it’d be great to share with others.
March 20, 2019 @ 8:14 am
Hi Beth
I was wondering my son is 8 and I just wanted to know if there is a routine to this supplements, for example what should be taken in the morning , what at night?? How should I begin? Sorry, I’m new at this, any suggestions?
Thanks
March 20, 2019 @ 4:31 pm
Hi Carolina! Thanks for your note…this stuff can be really overwhelming. We have changed how we take things over the years, but when we began, my kids took the KidsCalm and the fish oil in the am. Then at night we did the magmind(about 45 mins before bed)…I started with one and then went to two pretty quickly. Always start with a small amount and see how it goes….everyone reacts differently. Too much magnesium can cause diarrhea, so watch for that. The kids calm has enough magnesium to start the day calmly and at night the magnesium helps go to sleep(we seriously notice when we forget this now!)I’ve also done the magmind in the am and then the kids calm at night……mix it with pineapple juice if your son doesn’t like the taste. Let me know how it goes!
May 28, 2019 @ 4:48 am
Hi I have a 15 year old son that we just diagnosed with ADHD. We have been struggling for years with it. I was very wary of putting him on medicine. He recently started taking 10mg of Adderall and 2 mg of guafancine. He doesn’t take on weekends and will come off when summer starts. I plan to go 100% all natural at the beginning of the school year. I am going to order all of your suggestions in this article but am worried that taking them together will give him too much of specific vitamins. For example the multivitamin has omega 3, D, and Magnesium. Then there is both omega 3 and D in the fish oil and obviously Magnesium in the mag pill. Reading about how much a teenage boy should have I am seeing it will be almost double the recommended intake.
Do you give all of these to your kids daily? Have you had any issues.
Also CBD with no THC was helpful for my son. I read quite a few articles that specific strains of canabidoil with equal parts THC to CBD actually creates enough dopamine to work similar to ADHD meds without all of the side affects. Of course this is a no go in our state because he is a minor. It would however be interesting to see whether more studies of this are done in the future.
May 28, 2019 @ 5:45 am
Hi Cherie, Thanks for your note…sorry that things are tough for you. We currently take the KidsCalm Drink(see in a more recent post), the probiotics and the fish oil in the morning and the magmind about an hour before bed. There definitely are conflicting reports of how much mag per day is okay. This amount has been fine for my nearly 11 and 13 year old. Watch for diarrhea as a side effect of too much. Start low and increase if needed is my advice-check with your doctor, too(although I’ve found most docs do not think any natural products work.) We just ordered some CDB and have only tried a few times, so still seeing if it works. I have taken it a few times and it works for me!! We are getting a stool test this summer to see if there are any issues in the gut, too. 95% of our dopamine and serotonin are created in the gut – so we’ll see. Let me know how your summer goes and what you decide to try.
August 7, 2019 @ 3:21 pm
Hello – I’m confused about your use of MagMind plus Kids Calm.
Are they getting too much magnesium?
You mentioned taking MagMind yourself before bed, but you give your kids the Kids Calm before bed… won’t MagMind make the child sleepy in the am if it’s making you sleepy?
Thank you for clarifying!!
August 7, 2019 @ 5:32 pm
Hi Aubrey! Sorry for the confusion. The MagMind relaxes and calms – and certainly helps the transition to sleep. But not enough to knock you out in the day. My kids use the KidsCalm drink mix in the morning before school – it has lots of vitamins plus magnesium. My oldest also takes MagMind (two) at night about an hour before bed. I also take MagMind an hour before bed and it just helps me sleep a little more soundly, I’ve noticed.Hope that clarifies! Thanks for reaching out.
August 7, 2019 @ 9:02 pm
Thank you for the quick reply!! I rushed out to out health food store to find The KidsCalm but both they and amazon are out of stock (back to school season, eh?) . The nutritionist gave me Terry Naturally’s CalmKids. Looks similar to KidsCalm but has added L-Taurine among other things. Have you reviewed that product? And they also said that GABA is really helpful which the KidsCalm doesn’t have. Any thoughts there? Thank you so much!!
August 8, 2019 @ 6:12 am
Hi Aubrey! Yes, our local health food store can’t keep the KidsCalm on the shelf!! Have not heard of Terry’s, but let me know how it goes. I haven’t tried the L-theanine, but heard good things about it. We may try it this year. We are dabbling with some CBD oil, but have not had the need for it during summer, really. If we start using it more frequently, I’ll post about that. Let me know how those products go!
August 8, 2019 @ 7:38 am
Thank you for your honest reviews, Beth! Hard to find such a good resource these days 🙂
August 11, 2019 @ 3:46 pm
BAD NEWS… Pretty sure Kids Calm is being discontinued!!! I just ran out and got the last 2 bottles within 15 miles of my house. Some places aren’t even selling them online anymore, and I don’t trust Amazon for vitamins. Be sure to check expiration date before buying. I found something else close to it, but more for adults, no fish oil or Amino acids. Since my son is 13 and 110 lbs I am going to try it soon… something from Trace Minerals. Best of luck!
August 11, 2019 @ 4:58 pm
Oh no!!! I was just at our health food store buying the Kids Calm drink mix and saw the other on the shelf….I need to go get some before it’s gone! Thanks for the heads up, Mary!!
August 12, 2019 @ 8:27 am
Looking forward to your review of the product from Trace Minerals. Please let us know the name if you can!
August 12, 2019 @ 10:09 am
Liquid Multivitamin & Mineral – Orange Mango (30 Fluid Ounces) by Trace Minerals. Again, it’s close, but stronger for kids and no fish oil or amino acids (I think). I already give Nordic Naturals Omega-3, so am not so worried about that, but all those amino acids ( (L-PROLINE,L-GLUTAMIC ACID,L-ALANINE,L-ARGININE,L-ASPARTIC ACID,L-GLUTAMINE,L-LYSINE,L-SERINE,L-LEUCINE,L-VALINE,L-THREONINE,L-PHENYLALANINE,L-TYROSINE,L-METHIONINE,L-ISOLEUCINE,L-HISTIDINE,L-CYSTINE) I think may be a problem.
And for the record, I have an email out to Natural Vitality re: the discontinuation so I will let you know as soon as I hear.
August 12, 2019 @ 5:59 pm
Thanks!! Let me know what you hear. I’m going to ask at our local health food store to see what they rec. Will let you know what I find out.
August 14, 2019 @ 11:46 am
Hi Beth – I’m looking at the label on the Liquid Multi Vitamin (Trace Minerals) and it does indeed look loaded with items that I’ve heard specifically about for help with ADHD – specifically the Magnesium, Zinc, and B Vitamins. I was also excited to see it has Inositol (a friend of mind told me about the Nemechek Protocol, which put Inositol on my radar, though I haven’t tried it). My question for you – have you cut the dosage for your kids since it’s an adult multi? My son is 66 lbs and 9 yrs old. The dosage of Magnesium (300 mg) looks correct for his size/weight, but I’m not sure of the other ingredients. Would appreciate your feedback on this! Thank you for being such a great resource.
August 15, 2019 @ 2:11 pm
Now you see why this new multivitamin caught my attention, it’s very close, but it’s more of an adult dosage, with no fish oil or amino acids.
Also, does anyone have actual experience with giving their ADHD child something with Inositol? I’ve heard both good (that it helps) and to STAY AWAY from it, that early studies suggest inositol might not help improve ADHD symptoms.
August 15, 2019 @ 5:32 pm
Hi…haven’t tried Inositol at all. Going to our local health food store tomorrow after work….this is all happening during my first week back at work. Ahhhhhh!!! Checking to see what they rec. and to see if they have any KidsCalm left!! : )
August 15, 2019 @ 2:14 pm
Aubrey, I haven’t tried it yet, only that it’s on my radar for when I run out of the Kids Calm that I already stocked up on… so maybe Christmas time I will start it.
August 15, 2019 @ 5:30 pm
Hi Aubrey…The Trace Minerals does look good….my son is nearly 100 pounds at 13 and probably takes 250 to 300 mg a day of magnesium. I know too much magnesium can be harmful, but if he is having no side effects, its probably fine. Check with your doctor, too – if they even entertain talking about that kind of stuff! : )
August 15, 2019 @ 1:56 pm
IT’S OFFICIAL – I just got the following from Natural Vitality…
Hi Mary, Thank you for reaching out to us. Our Calm Kids Multivitamin has been discontinued and we are no longer manufacturing them.
UGH!!!! Get out there and get it while you can.
September 5, 2019 @ 8:48 am
Hello!! I have read this great post and saw your update about the multi vitamin. I’m curious if you have found another great multi. I am in need of a new one.
September 5, 2019 @ 5:15 pm
Hi Jodi!! We are now taking Blue Bonnet Rainforest Animalz multi….so far so good! I also bought a bottle of their zinc chewable. I will update the post with more as soon as some more time passes. Also check the comments for some other suggestions from awesome readers and follow me on Instagram for other suggestions….heyfuzzymama is my name there. Thanks!!
October 8, 2019 @ 10:25 pm
Hello! So glad to have found your site. Thanks for the information. I have 2 teenagers with inattentiveness more so than hyperactivity am hoping for some help with focus and recall. They are taking omega 3 and I was interested to learn about magmind. Just wondering if giving magmind in the morning would cause sleepiness or if I should only give at night.
Thanks!
October 9, 2019 @ 5:45 am
HI! Glad you found us! My kids take the magmind at night and the KidsCalm drink in the am – most days. I think you just have to experiment and see what works for your kids. The KidsCalm Focus drink has vitamin B and other things in it to help with focus, too. But sometimes my kids drink the KidsCalm at night because they love it so much. I used to have my son take one MagMind in the morning and he was fine – not sleepy at all. If sleep is an issue, I’d take the MagMind at night (and your kids are old enough to take 2) because it helps soo much with staying asleep. Let me know how it works out!
November 13, 2019 @ 11:28 am
Getting ready to purchase the bluebonnet multi and the calm kids drink. My son is 10 can I give both the multi and the calm kids drink in the morning or is there too much overlap that you have seen?
I will also be restarting the fish oil and probiotics. I want to make sure I am not giving him too much. What are your thoughts?
November 14, 2019 @ 8:10 pm
Hi Janice! The multi and Kidcalm drink mix overlap a bit their vitamins. We take the fish oil, multi and probiotic in the am and take the drink mix after school usually and the magmind at night. This summer the Kids Calm Multi served as our multi vitamin — it’s a bit more economical but does not contain as much magnesium as other magnesium supplements. Hope that helps.
February 7, 2020 @ 12:01 am
Mary Ruth Organics is hands down the best multivitamin! Liquid so it’s absorbability is way better than pill form plus all there supplements are sugar free and free of harmful additives. Like on days we don’t take it here I know 100% of the time we have skipped a day! Such amazing products!
February 7, 2020 @ 5:40 am
HI Kierra!! I just recently found them, too! I have not purchased anything yet as we are using up our stash of what we have, but I will definitely check them out!! Thanks for your endorsement of them.
March 15, 2020 @ 8:48 am
I have been using magnesium and a multi vitamin. I recently purchased CALM drink mix and use on days we don’t take the multi and magnesium. I also purchased Barlean’s fish oil. It doesn’t appear to overlap with anything , but curious if you’ve seen an overlap. Thank you!!
March 15, 2020 @ 9:14 am
Hi Natalie! What do you mean by overlap? Positive or negative effects? My kids now usually take their multi vitamin, Barlean’s and probiotic in the am and drink Calm after school or before bed. If they drink it before bed, I usually hold off on the MagMind at night. I have never seen any negative effects of overlap or taking too much of anything. But let me know if I misunderstood you, thanks!!
March 30, 2020 @ 6:33 pm
Hey what do u think about the smarty pants multi vitamin with omega 3’s?
March 30, 2020 @ 8:57 pm
HI Stacey, I have not used them myself or for my kids, but I have heard good things about them. Let me know how you like them,if you try them.
May 9, 2020 @ 10:45 pm
You should try trim Healthy Mama it’s pretty much what you’re already doing you should look it up they have it for kids as well in the book it talks about kids as well it’s a family thing
May 10, 2020 @ 10:44 am
Thanks, I will check it out!
May 15, 2020 @ 11:39 pm
Hi! I enjoyed your post and hope to switch my son to natural from his medication. Do you give your boys everything at once in the morning or space it out throughout the day?
May 23, 2020 @ 10:42 am
HI Jessica! Thanks for your question! It has varied over the years how and when I give the supplements. I do space them out over the day, though. Currently, my kids have the multi and fish oil in the morning and magMind at night. Probiotics are either time – usually when I remember to remind them. We also take KidsCalm in lieu of the multi often…..I have promoted this lately because it gets them some magnesium in the morning which seems to calm then for our Shelter in Place schooling. I’d start with the KidsCalm if you want to just try one thing…my kids love it and I notice a difference in their calmness!
August 16, 2020 @ 9:22 am
Hi! Could you maybe add like a master list of how the vitamins went and changed? Kind of a schedule I guess. Like ages 4-6 x,y,z,in the morning and xyz at night. 6-10 xyz morning, xyz at night. I hope that makes sense. Just wanted to get an over all view.
August 16, 2020 @ 9:59 am
Hi Jessica…..sure! I can do kind of a summary for you. But it does really depend on your kids, too. It really was a trial and error for us and we still tweak it, depending on budget, kids’ moods etc. : ) I’ll put something up in the next week or so.
Thanks for the suggestion.
September 10, 2020 @ 10:02 pm
My son is 10 and in fifth grade. He was diagnosed with ADHD and dyslexia half way through their grade. He is about to start the third medication for the ADHD. I really do not want him on it because of the side effects. Everyone he had some type of side effect. This year his attending an online school and I am his learning coach and I’ve noticed that even on the medication he still loses focus in very fidgety. I would much rather him take something natural but I truly do not know where to start. I saw the thrive on Facebook and researching lead me to this article”our best proven natural ADHD remedies”. Can you please guide me into which one to start him with for the ADHD. Thank you.
October 28, 2020 @ 9:36 pm
Hi Lucinda! Sorry you are going thru this. I know exactly how you feel! I’d start with a blood test at the pediatricians to just rule out any deficiencies. Every kid is different, but we found a lot of success with changing our diet. I think thats a great start for anyone. Sleep is a big deal, too. If there is anything I’ve learned, it’s not just one thing, but small things that add up to a big change. In terms of supplements, we had great luck with magnesium, zinc and probiotics and a good multi. We’ve changed things over the years, but still stick with these on a regular basis. Keep me up to date on what you decide to do.
July 15, 2020 @ 7:03 pm
hello,
how much magnesium should I give to a 4 years old?
Thank yoi
July 16, 2020 @ 8:35 pm
Hi Kija, I would use a bit of magnesium lotion for someone so young. You can purchase it at a health food store and rub a bit on the back of their neck or the bottoms of their feet at night. I don’t think there is a recommended amount for someone so young. Also, look for foods high in magnesium, like almonds and spinach. Hope that helps!
September 15, 2020 @ 12:52 pm
Hi! I’ve just purchased several of the items you have recommended! We are looking to address our 9 year old sons recent diagnosis naturally before looking into prescription medications. I have started the fish oil in the morning, he is also taking both the Calm Kids Focus Drink mix and the Bluebonnet Animalz Multiple Vitamins. I just noticed you recommended one or the other but not both together. Is there a reason for this? I see that some of the Vitamins overlap, but am wondering if it’s okay to give him both? Thanks for sharing your research and experience!
September 15, 2020 @ 4:44 pm
HI Jennifer! My boys often take both….the vitamins that overlap won’t harm, as our nutritionist says, they just make expensive pee! Do you have a doctor who is a support with this or do they just want to prescribe meds? Have you gotten a full blood work up? Our doc did one and saw low iron. Let me know how it goes!
September 25, 2020 @ 11:59 am
Hi. I am so happy to have found your site!! I am in the process of setting up appointments for my twin 10 year old daughters to be tested and get us the help we need. I read your stories (parts 1 and 2) and can’t get over the similarities. In the meantime of me waiting to get in to see our pediatrician ( and I’ve set up an appointment with a behavior specialist), could you guide me as to which supplements would be a good start? I’ll have to wait on the test to know if iron is low. I know the fish oil would be great (do you take that same one, as well?). I also think the probiotic and prebiotic would be beneficial. Both of my girls can swallow pills. (They are in the 95 percentile for their age! So they look to be 13!) They have both begun their periods and I realize I was blaming too much on hormones. After much research, I now know it is more than that. I just ordered the book you recommended, “The Explosive Child” and can’t wait to read it.
They do sleep well. We have always had a strict bedtime and while it takes a lot to get them in bed, they do fall asleep quickly and stay asleep. So, I’m not sure that I need the MagMind, or is there other benefits to it?
I know that’s a lot, but any guidance would be greatly appreciated!
September 25, 2020 @ 9:00 pm
Hi Aimie, Glad you found us! Great to go see a doc – are you getting a full neuropsyche done? I have a blog post coming out soon about getting one and the many benefits! We also just started seeing a nutritionist, and I have another post coming out in a week or so about that. We had such great luck with both of my boys with fish oil, magnesium (now we take at bed), and a good multi and probiotic, too. We tweak when we take them and sometimes its just when my kids remember. All the brands we recommend taste yummy to most kids(pineapple juice works if they taste yucky!) i’d start with the KidsCalm drink and a probiotic, if you just want to start a few.
October 7, 2020 @ 10:35 am
I think I’ve confused myself reading about the supplements your boys take. Do they take all of these:
Bluebonnet Rainforest Animalz Multiple Vitamin
Jarrow Formulas Yum-Yum dophilus probiotic supplement
justthrive probiotic & antioxidant
justthrive precision prebiotic
Jarrow Mag Mind Magnesium
Natural Vitality Calm Specifics Kids
Barlean’s Fish Oil (my grandson already takes this – yay)
Or do they take “either” the Natural Vitality Calm Specifics Kids =OR= the Bluebonnet Rainforest Animalz Multiple Vitamins?
We’ve started him on a gluten free diet but still learning. He’s started drinking almond and/or coconut milk and trying non-dairy dairy (is that an oxymoron ha ha) products. Of course, we are all going that route because wow – that stuff’s expensive and I’m not buying two types of everything.
While we are doing gluten free I don’t think we are completely corn free. Baby steps.
Did you ask your pediatrician to run tests for allergies or was that just part of the ADHD discussion?
Our grandson was on ADHD medication but he was barely eating and not sleeping hardly at all. It is heart-wrenching when your 8-9 year old grandson comes to you at 3-4 am saying he can’t sleep. We could hear the frustration and anguish in his voice. So last spring when schools closed due to COVID, we weaned him off the ADHD medication. Of course, he’s struggling major in school but until we know if this diet/supplement is going to work we don’t want to put him back on the medication. He’s sleeping good now and has gained 10 pounds!
Anyway … I will continue to read your blog for suggestions but wanted to get these supplements ordered.
Thanks so much for sharing your journey. You are so helpful and many appreciate it! 🙂
October 7, 2020 @ 6:37 pm
HI Gina! Thanks for your question…I confuse myself most days! Their supplement routine has changed over the years and from season to season. When they are taking the KidsCalm Drink mix, I am not so adamant about the other multi…but I do make sure they take a probiotic – the yum yum for my kid who can’t swallow pills and the just thrive for my kid who can swallow pills (although you can empty it into a drink – but mostly they take their own supplements). We take the fish oil most days (Neither are apt to spoon it out themselves, but don’t complain when i do it for them) and we take MagMind at night now for sleep (about an hour or so before bed or at bedtime when we forget!) I love the magnesium for sleep!! Have you tried a weighted blanket for your grandson? That is our golden ticket for my oldest! Hope that helps! I’ve found that diet low in sugar and processed foods (even the “healthy” processed foods) is so key, too.
Lots of work and we are not perfect about it, but I do notice if we stray off it, even for a day or two. Let me know how it goes!
October 27, 2020 @ 9:30 pm
Hi! Great article! I am new to all this and I would like to start with diet and vitamins/supplements. You have quite a few listed in your article. Do you use each one everyday? My son struggles with focus and calmness. What do you recommend as a good starting point. Thank you!
October 27, 2020 @ 9:33 pm
Also, I agree. It’s a household problem not just with him. I felt relieved when I read that. Thank you. I have a 2 year that has been driving me nuts and I think she’s getting it from him. I could be wrong, but when we are home alone she’s a completely different person. Any of these vitamins and supplements work for a kid that young?
October 28, 2020 @ 8:23 pm
My therapist always says, “Take that finger and turn it back around to you.” I always try to look at my part in all of this. My kiddo does not respond to the way I was parented, as most kids these days probably don’t — new times, new parenting. Glad you found us!
October 28, 2020 @ 8:22 pm
Hi Stephanie! I’d start with magnesium and B vitamins, which is why I love the Kids Calm so much. I’d also make sure sleep is optimal — Getting a good night’s sleep is so important. We have a consistent bedtime routine and LOVE our weighted blanket. Check in with me to let me know how it’s going.
November 11, 2020 @ 6:41 pm
What are your thoughts on the Barlean’s vegan fish oil with flax oil?
November 14, 2020 @ 6:28 am
HI Carendylyn! I have not had any the vegan fish oil, but flax oil is great! Let me know how you like it.
December 2, 2020 @ 2:02 pm
I’m not sure if this has been discussed or not….. you mentioned several times that Xylitol is derived from corn…. the Xylitol that I have is derived from birch…. Are there different kinds of xylitol and derivatives?
December 4, 2020 @ 5:55 am
Hi Trish….thanks for your comment! Xylitol is found in the cell walls of most plants – from my research I’ve found it is mostly derived from corn cobs AND birch…..I stay away from it as much as I can because I am sure it’s mostly cheaply produced corn based. I guess you’d have to do research on individual products to know the source.
January 16, 2021 @ 10:01 am
I am so glad I found your blog! I think it will help my daughter (who wasn’t diagnosed with ADD until she was all grown up) and my grandson (who is 6 and needs no doctor diagnosis and he is a poster child for ADHD). I am so excited to share this information with her! For any parent or grandparent that reads the comments, I would add: take ADHD individuals outside. My grandson is definitely much more balanced when he is outside. Happy healing!
January 16, 2021 @ 10:12 am
Hi Jessica! So glad to have you as a reader. You are sooooo right about getting outside. It’s one of the reasons we gravitated to a Montessori Education and my boys are still in Scouts! Nature is so healing…in fact I am on my way out the door to walk in the snow for a little self care. Keep in touch!!