Sleep Tips for Children with ADHD That Work

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 Do you ask yourself any of these questions on almost a daily basis?

Why won’t my ADHD child sleep?  How can I calm my ADHD child at night? Or How can bedtime just easier for my ADHD child?

I get it, you just want to make the transition to bed not a battle for your child and you. I have tried many, many ways  to help my two boys with ADHD go to sleep and stay asleep.

Getting a kid with ADHD to go to sleep can be extremely challenging. Their mind and body may still be racing when it’s supposed to be settling down for the night.

One of my kids, in particular can have a real problem going to sleep. He tells me “Sleep is boring, Mom!.”

For kids with ADHD, transition times can be difficult and bedtime certainly falls into that category.

 But, there are things you can do to have a really great effect on your kids ability to wind down and relax at bedtime. Here are the best sleep tips I’ve found to really help ADHD kids get to sleep and stay asleep.

The Best Bedtime Tips for ADHD Kids:

Keep a consistent routine

There is power in routine. When kids know what to expect, things are much more likely to go smoothly.

We keep the same routine – and bed time- even on weekends( as much as possible!).

I make sure to begin our routine about 45 minutes before lights out, so nothing seems rushed.   It’s all hands on deck to help this go smoothly – my husband and I each take on some of the duties.

We turn off all unnecessary lights as my kids shower, brush teeth and get in pjs. I love to get in some read aloud time  and then each kid gets a bit of time to read in their beds with a small book light.

Other things you might include in your bedtime routine: 

  • A little stretching or a yoga pose
  • Mediation or Deep breathing
  • Drinking warm, herbal tea, with calming herbs
  • Turn off screens an hour or two before bedtime

Try a weighted blanket

Since ADHD is usually not just about hyperactivity, calming the sensory system often has a big payoff.  Weighted blankets put pressure on the big muscle groups, releasing serotonin to aid in the overall relaxation of the body.

Using a weighted blanket can have a huge effect on a kid’s ability to calm themselves for sleep. 

We have used a weighted blanket for about three years now with tremendous results. My son loves it and once underneath it, does not get out of bed!!  

My son just said last night, “Mom, I used to hate going to bed, but now I see how relaxing it is.”

Weighted blankets  can be pricey, but considering how important sleep is, they are worth every penny!! My favorite brand, SensaCalm, now has an economy line  of weighted blankets along with an amazing clearance section.

Related: The Best Weighted Blanket for ADHD Kids

Go to bed earlier

This may seem a bit backwards, I know.  But kids often have a magic hour when falling asleep is sooo much easier.  If you miss it and wait too long, they are actually too tired to fall asleep.

Thats when the behaviors start – the whining ,the racing around – they are too tired to self soothe and need you.

Sound familiar?

Do an experiment and try putting your kid to bed 30 minutes or an hour earlier than usual. It might take a week or so to adjust, but this just may be the ticket!! 

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends 9 to 12 hours for children ages 6 to 12.  Sleep deprivation in kids has been linked to poor performance in school(less sleep can cause kids to be 1 to 2 grade levels behind), obesity, and a myriad of other health issues.

So, obviously, count backwards from when your kids have to get up and aim to get as much sleep as possible.

Turn off screens at least an hour before bed

All screens emit blue light, which has been shown to disrupt the body’s natural circadian rhythm and it’s ability to produce melatonin. Make sure you turn off all screens a good hour, if not more, before bedtime.

With older kids having to do homework on screens, this is becoming increasingly difficult for many families. We have a no screens after dinner rule, which works because my kids have little to no homework on a screen. We may have to tweak this as they get older.

I just bought these blue light blocking glasses which we will try. My kids will be wearing them when the sun goes down to block out the blue light from screens and our fluorescent bulbs. I will let you know how that goes!  My husband and I will be wearing them, too!

Take Magnesium an hour before bed

We are big on natural supplements and have worked to find a good regimen.  One of the most helpful supplements for relaxing is magnesium. I make sure my son takes it about an hour or so before bed(we had to find the sweet spot with some testing).

The magnesium serves to slow him down and help with the transition to bedtime. Rubbing magnesium oil on the bottom of your child’s feet is a wonderful alternative for kids who are not old enough to swallow pills.

If you take other supplements with magnesium in the morning, make sure you do not exceed the maximum daily dosage for your child. Also make sure your child is getting enough B6 to aid in the absorption of magnesium.

We love this drink that has magnesium and B6! It’s pictured above and tastes as yummy as it looks!

Related: Natural Remedies for ADHD

Darken the room as much as possible

Like the blue light of a computer screen, even small amounts of compact fluorescent and LED light can upset the body’s circadian rhythm and it’s ability to produce sleep inducing melatonin.  

We have black out shades and red nightlights in my kids’ bedrooms and the bathroom. My son usually needs the bathroom light on to calm nighttime fears, but as soon as he is asleep, I turn out all lights.

We also have these light bulbs in lights around the house.  When the sun goes down, these are the only lights we have on. The lack of blue light signals the bodies own natural circadian rhythm that it’s time to start winding down. 

Try simple deep breathing exercises

Before I leave my son’s room for the night we do a few rounds of deep breathing.  We vary our routine, but lately we breathe in for 3 counts, hold for 3 counts and breathe out in 5.

Breathing out for longer than you breathe in seems to do the trick.  In breaths quicken the heart rate, while out breaths slow it. This is a great technique to learn for a quick relaxer anytime.

We also love Sitting Still Like a Frog, a great book with mindfulness exercises. The book is great for the 10 and under set.  We’ve had it for ages and still do some of the exercises.

Modeling the behavior helps him learn the technique so that he is able to do it for himself.  Equipping him with as many tools as I can is my goal.

Encourage relaxation

It may be helpful to add some fun relaxing bits to your routine. A few days a week, I’ve been giving my oldest son lemon foot baths to soothe his senses and ground him in his body.  He LOVES these and it’s a nice way to do a little doting on him, too.

We have tried  the mediation app Smiling Minds with some success–one of my sons does not always join in. As we continue to make it more of a practice,  hopefully everyone can benefit.

If all of this seems a bit overwhelming pick one or two to try.

We have instituted these over a few years as my kids have gotten older and seemingly a bit harder to get to bed.  Helping my kids get enough sleep is one of the  best things I can do for their overall health and the well being of our family.

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